Kids love their grandparents. Whether they are occasional visitors or all week child carers, there’s something special about the relationship between a child and the people who love them intensely but don’t have to worry so much about rules and everything being perfect. It’s almost like grandparents get to be the parents we (and probably they) wish we could be!
A day out with the grandparents can be a very rewarding and enjoyable experience. I know that my kids love going to stay with Nanny and Grandad and have a few places that they think of as ‘theirs’ – “Nanny and Grandad always take us there”. It’s a lovely experience for the kids, hopefully not too exhausting for my parents, and of course nice for us to get a night off.
Here are some top tips about making the most of days out with kids and grandparents:
- Make it something that is enjoyable for everyone: The kids may love running round with lasers, or outdoor obstacle courses, but this might not be something grandparents can join in with, especially if you have mobility issues. Make sure the terrain suits what you can handle, especially if they are using a walking stick or Disability scooters for the elderly. You might want to consider things like places to sit and have a rest – even the most fit and agile of grandparents may find too long up and about with the kids quite tiring!
- Think about costs ahead of going: Days out can really add up: a trip to the cinema is pricey when you factor in popcorn and drinks too, if you’re out on a farm, will you need lunch? Once upon a time you would have known the prices of everything, but the world of kids’ days out is probably a little behind you now! If you’re prepared, it won’t be such a shock!
- Do something you know a bit about: Kids love to learn. They might not admit it, but they do. And as grandparents aren’t the ones nagging them about doing their homework, it’s a perfect opportunity to teach them about something you love. History buff? Pop to a castle or museum. Outdoors expert? Go camping, or just set up camp in the garden. Stargazing, birdwatching, sports and games are all things you can help the grandchildren learn. Even things that are ‘chores’ like gardening or tinkering with cars can be fun for kids to do with their grandparents. One of my daughter’s favourite activities to do at Nanny and Grandad’s is learning to bandage everyone’s limbs!
- Take lots of photos and things to send home: Of course, parents love the break but they really look forward to getting the kids back and hearing what they’ve been up to, so take lots of photos and make sure you share! It will also be fun for the children to look back on their day out.
- Don’t feel like you have to do something amazing: In reality, the children will have a great time wherever you go. They’ll enjoy a picnic in the park as much as an extravagant day out to London, so don’t feel you always need to be doing something spectacular. More than anything, they just love spending time with people who love them.
